Wednesday, November 24, 2010

Looking In or Out

I have a flaw of being quick to judge a person's actions--or non-actions.  It happened again yesterday, someone was talking to me and while the conversation was going on, I'm thinking they should be doing this or they should have done that.  I tend to be impatient when I feel someone isn't acting according to my expectations of the situation.

During the course of the conversation, the Spirit convicted me and I mentally asked forgiveness and let some things go.  When I hung up the phone a  picture of a window came to mind.  Its easy to be the one looking in the window and watching what others are doing.  We are on the outside--looking in, with a pane of glass in between us--muting out important details.  The picture is different from the outside versus the inside of the room.

If we are inside looking out; we are in the middle of what is happening.  Emotions, sounds, and life are all around us and as we gaze outside--things look different.  Peaceful because the noise of the outside is muted by the pane of glass.

I don't know a person's heart--I can assume what someone is going through--but I'll never truly know, only Christ knows the heart--He is our creator.  Giving advice is one thing, but mentally condemning a person's actions or non-actions is wrong.  Where go I but for the Grace of God?

Life is a process and I'm thankful that God opens up my eyes to my imperfections--painful as it may be at times. 

1 comment:

Retta said...

I had an incident recently that reminded me once again that only God can look into the heart, and see a persons motives.

We can know what they say and do, but can't see their true heart.

I liked the analogy of the window... and I appreciate God as our Teacher. He really knows just the right way to put it, so we "get" it.

Loretta
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